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We delve into the new data, what it tells us about the ‘modern family’ and the steps that cohabiting couples should take to protect their rights.
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Our divorce solicitors specialise in pension sharing to ensure that your long term financial security is protected after a relationship breakdown.
That’s why our award-winning family law team — recognised by The Times Best Law Firms, The Legal 500 and Chambers & Partners — contains experts in helping you to understand and protect your long‑term financial security.
Whether you have complex workplace or private pensions, international arrangements or significant business‑related schemes, we’re here to ensure that nothing is missed and achieve a fair and sustainable outcome.
We provide clear, practical advice while taking a sensitive, personal approach to your situation. We’re used to collaborating closely with actuaries and financial planners and regularly support high-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth clients with highly complex arrangements. Many of our clients are public servants who’ve worked in the NHS, for the Police or in education.
In our experience, it’s vital to get specialist advice about your pension position at the earliest opportunity. Don’t delay — a decision made now could shape your future for decades to come.
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“I’m so grateful to Brabners — particularly Danielle Hutchinson and Caitlyn Oaten — for their outstanding support during a long and complex financial case. From the FDR hearing right through to the final settlement and property transfer, they carried out everything with professionalism, empathy, and precision. I couldn’t have asked for better legal representation.”
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We’re widely known for our expertise in financial settlements that involve complex pensions, including:
We also work closely with specialist actuaries and financial advisers to ensure that you understand:
Our goal is simple: to make sure that your long‑term financial future is properly protected.








Pensions are often the second (if not the first) most valuable asset in a marriage after the family home. Yet research consistently shows that they’re frequently undervalued, ignored or misunderstood during divorce negotiations.
Recent UK‑wide studies highlight that:
A pension share can be genuinely life‑changing. In many cases, it’s the difference between long‑term financial stability and a significant shortfall in later life.
It can also ensure that there’s a more balanced sharing of matrimonial assets — allocating a fair share of property, capital and pensions between divorcing couples — rather than one party retaining most of the capital to the exclusion of the other.

The court has a few options when dividing pensions:
This is the most common and effective way to achieve a clean break. A percentage of one spouse’s pension is transferred to the other, giving each person their own, independent pot for the future.
One party keeps their pension and the other receives a greater share of other assets (often the family home or lump‑sum capital). This requires careful calculation by a Pension On Divorce Expert to ensure fairness as well as sufficient liquid capital to fund such a payment, which isn’t always available.
A portion of pension income or lump sum is paid to the other party when the pension comes into payment. However, this doesn’t create a clean break and is used far less frequently.

Many people unintentionally forgo pension claims because they:
The data shows that this commonly leads to women retiring with far less pension provision, even after long marriages where wealth was built jointly. A comprehensive and fair financial settlement should always include robust pension analysis.
Our team takes a proactive approach to ensure that:

Our expertise in pensions on divorce is spearheaded by experienced Partners from our award-winning family law team.
Chris Fairhurst has over 30 years’ experience in financial arrangements following difficult and high-conflict relationship breakdowns. He represents a significant number of clients within the NHS, Police and other public and third-sector organisations where pension sharing has been a particular consideration. A trained mediator, Chris has appeared on TV and radio to add expertise to topical discussions around all manner of family law issues.
Leanne Instrall is an expert in matrimonial finance proceedings and contentious financial disputes. Similarly skilled at dealing with complex assets such as businesses and trusts, Leanne uses negotiation, court proceedings and other forms of dispute resolution to achieve the right result for her clients. She’s recognised in leading legal directories for her “notable experience in financial remedy proceedings”.
Richard Rigg’s practice also focuses on divorce and financial settlements, with a specialism in complex proceedings that involve shareholdings, overseas assets, tax issues and more. He’s also often called on to resolve financial issues that arise from unmarried or cohabiting couples’ relationship breakdowns, which often involve the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996 (ToLATA) proceedings.
Debbie Heald specialises in finances on divorce, including dealing with technically complex matters such as valuable pension funds. Recognised as a Key Lawyer by The Legal 500, Debbie is a member of Resolution and the Family Law Panel.

We delve into the new data, what it tells us about the ‘modern family’ and the steps that cohabiting couples should take to protect their rights.

We outline how an overseas marriage is treated under English and Welsh law for anyone considering divorce.

We explore how adultery and other forms of misconduct fit into the current divorce framework and when behaviour affects the financial settlement.

We explore how the courts approach trusts on divorce and outline the key considerations for dealing with them after separation.

We explore the process of valuing a business and reaching a financial settlement upon divorce or dissolution.

We explore how the courts approach parental contributions in divorce and the practical steps families may need to consider.

We explore how pensions are treated in divorce, from entitlement and valuation to division options.

We set out everything you need to know about financial orders — how they work, the different types and more.

The importance of a Pension Sharing Order, the process for implementing one and the remedies available if one party fails to engage in that process.

NDAs are becoming more prevalent in divorce proceedings, especially for high-profile individuals or where sensitive information is concerned — but do you need one?

International divorce cases are highly complex and the choice of jurisdiction can make a significant difference to financial outcomes.

January and September are the most ‘popular’ months to begin divorce proceedings — we look at why and top tips for couples thinking of separation.

Divorce isn't an option until after 12 months — but alternatives like annulment, judicial separation and separation agreements are available.

The Supreme Court has clarified the law surrounding when ‘non-matrimonial property’ can become ‘matrimonial property’.

Here, Amy Harris from our family law team and Rachel Brassey from our corporate team explain exactly what information a business owner may be expected to share during a divorce.

In the realm of financial remedy proceedings following divorce, the duty of full and frank financial disclosure is a long-established principle.

Three common divorce pitfalls involve clean break orders, pension rights and Will writing. Find out the importance of obtaining a financial order.

Here, Chris Fairhurst explores Mr Vince’s experience of the financial settlement process and outlines the importance of considering nuptial agreements.

Following the festive period — and in the optimism of a new year ahead — many couples find themselves taking a hard and truthful look at their relationship.

The computer system glitch failed to detect that divorce applications were submitted too early, meaning that these divorces may not be legally valid.

Divorce law expert Amy Harris explains when and why financial information needs to be disclosed during a divorce and the risks that come with non-disclosure.

A family lawyer bravely reflects on her own experience of divorce and explains the essential self-care tips that she picked up along the way.

Our family law team helped a young entrepreneur to reach a suitable financial settlement in highly contested court proceedings following his divorce.

Our family law experts secured a property transfer for a client who divorced abroad and wasn’t granted a financial settlement as part of her divorce.

Find answers to our most frequently asked questions about divorce law from our expert family solicitors.

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